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The movie follows these characters around for three years until you end up back at the funeral at the opening of the movie. That funeral gives gravity to the often funny drunken outbursts from Allen and Costner's clowning around. Allen has a challenging role as she tries to earn some sympathy from the audience at the same time she makes her situation worse with angry outbursts, drinking, and sometimes unfathomablem criticism of her daughters. She is either hot or cold towards Costner, who hangs in and actually develops more than anyone in the movie.
The acting performances are good. Although Joan Allen has earned a lot of praise, her anger often seems cute when it is supposed to be vitriolic. The movie teeters between being a cute romance and an American Beauty tale of seething anger and (avoidable) tragedy. There are some genuinely funny moments, especially regarding a scummy radio producer (portrayed perfectly by the guy who wrote the movie). The movie is worth watching by grownups who can accept the flaws of the characters without judging them, but the movie is neither a light romance, angst-ridden drama, or family tragedy that it might appear to be. I'll give it a B.